A dear friend and family member shared the following with me, and it resonated in my heart. Perhaps it will for you as well.
“Peace requires us to surrender our illusions of control. We can love and care for others but we cannot possess our children, lovers, family, or friends. We can assist them, pray for them, and wish them well, yet in the end their happiness and suffering depend on their thoughts and actions, not on our wishes.” Jack Kornfield